its a rush from your head to your toes when your front and center singing right along with one of your favorite bands and nothing else matters. it used to be that no one cared and everyone was there for the same reason. its not about what you wear or even really what kind of music you listen to outside of it. its an escape from anything that you want to forget and just let yourself go. thats how it used to be. now people are critical and harsh and sometimes care too much. let yourselves go. in the greater scheme of things your judgements dont matter. it didnt matter before. and it shouldnt now.